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Why I love being in a small group

I grew up in a Christian home, but in the same way that being born in McDonald’s does not make you a hamburger, being born to Christian parents does not make a person a Christian. My home was certainly the first place where I explored and experienced a life of faith, but it was just the beginning.

Fun times out skating in Belgium.  It wasn't hard to pick out the Canadians.

Fun times out skating in Belgium. It wasn’t hard to pick out the Canadians.

Youth group was a great place to discuss, and be real about doubts, passions and to try out my ideas. In my later teens I started groups where we studied the Bible or learned about life together. As I look back on my life, my spiritual journey has been highlighted by being involved in small groups. Sometimes bigger groups, sometimes just 2-3 families meeting together for meals and short prayers. They’ve helped me through low times and helped to grow in me skills and gifts that I use much more publicly today.

Maybe you’re on the fence about whether you have time for a small group. You might be unsure that you would like the people in a small group. You might be resisting joining or starting a small group because people (like me) seem to be putting a guilt trip on you. I understand – I’ve felt all those emotions and more.

Today, I’d like to share with you 3 reasons why I love small groups. This is a little exercise just to build my own faith and convictions. If it helps you, then that’s great. If not, I’m sorry to waste your time.

3 Reasons to Love and Join A Small Group

1. They are local. The closeness of God’s people to the rest of the world is essential to the health of the church and the sharing of good news. Sharing news from a long way away is much less effective than to come close and be the deliverer of good news. And people who are being changed by God’s good news need to be geographically close.
Small groups are the vehicles God uses to change things.
“The local church is the hope of the world!” Bill Hybels.

2. It’s the model that Jesus gave us. A group of friends, learning together to be like our master and to do the things he does, in the way that he does them. Jesus started with 12 and after 3 years of doing the stuff together, he left them with the Holy Spirit to “turn the whole world upside down.”

They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.
Acts 2:42-47

3. We were meant to do this life of following Jesus together.
“No one can become a new [person] except by entering the Church, and becoming a member of the body of Christ. It is impossible to become a new [person] as a solitary individual. The new man means more than the individual believer after he has been justified and sanctified. It means the Church, the Body of Christ, in fact it means Christ himself.”
Dietrich Bonhoeffer (The Cost of Discipleship)

And you? What keeps you from a small group? What keeps you in a small group?


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5 Keys for New Followers of Jesus

Garden Shed Door

The question I’m answering here is: what are the 5 essential things every new believer needs to grow in their walk with Jesus. Most leaders will answer this differently because their skills, gifts and experiences are different. What does this list tell you about my skills, gifts and experiences?

1. Community. The older I get, the more I realize Continue reading